Saturday, December 6, 2008

06/12/08

harini aku rasa floating je. aku pun tak tahu kenapa aku rasa macam ni and lately there's so many things that i've been thinking about. aku rasa susah jugak aku nak explain lebih precise ape sebenarnya yang aku fikir kan..but all i can say it's mainly about my life and my future ahead. i am actually blessed with a family yang sangat rapat with each other..uncles, aunties, nenek2 semua.. at least eventhough harini aku macam lain sikit, aku manage to tarik nafas lebih ok sedikit dan kurang berfikir..

lusa hari raya aidiladha so ramai la balik, kat rumah aku ada nenek, nenek dua, pakbusu,mak usu, aleia (cousin aku). we all semua buat some preparation untuk masak lauk2 hari raya ni..best, makan macam2.. but ade something missing in me.

lastly, selamat hari raya aidiladha.

have a great day!

Thursday, December 4, 2008

What Do You Fantacize?


the proposal, the day when you tie the knot, life after marriage. after watching the bachelor, for only GOD knows how many times, so many things were running through my head. the movie actually about a man trying to get the woman to marry him in order to save his family business and there is a few things that got me thinking especially the part where his made some mistake in his proposal speech..ahahha..and that is what that made me think about how is my proposal would be?
i tink in our malay culture the proposal is more about the families meeting up and arrange somethings. how i actually wished that i could have a real weeding, romantic and memorable. the big day does not have to be big neither grand. its enough that it is nice, i got all my loved ones and friends around to capture my moments. i hope i could have a happy marriage, loving till the last days of our lives. holding hands when we are strolling and not being afraid to show it to people. i know it is abit not our culture because we are a little shy or conservative and especially in showing our effection towards our partners in public even in front of our families. but we got to do what we have to do in order to enhance our marred life. everyone have their point of view about marriage, what they fantacize for their big day. this is my fantasy, what i wanted. the most is i want both families welcome us in the family.
i am waiting for my day to come and i am praying hard that mine will be as how i picture it and we both be blessed.